الخميس، 1 فبراير 2018

This Weeks 5 Frugal Things on a Friday

Hello Dear Reader,



Guess what? I am so excited, anyone would think I was a farmer, it's raining!! It's been drizzling all night, so that means I won't need to stand out there for over an hour, on the weekend and water using our precious tank water. Simple things.

Talking of simple things, this weeks 5 Frugal things are just that, nothing mind blowing, just simple every day stuff that bring me joy and cost me nothing.

1. Cut the seed pods off the Italian Parsley, I popped them, seed pods pointing down, in a brown paper bag and sealed it. I will leave them to completely dry, let the seeds fall off the pods, then collect the seeds to plant out when the time is right


2. Walked the little fluffies everyday, yes, even when I was just so tired, I still make the effort just to see their joy at going for a walk, that and seeing them dive into their pool when we get home. Hilarious. 
The pool is from Bunnings, it's the best $20 I have ever spent

3. Picked the first Pineapple of the season, they may be small, but they are super duper sweet, I then dry the spiky top out and replant it. It's a constant, free cycle. Love it!

4. Made pita chips out of 3 leftover pita breads, from when we had Falafels for dinner on Monday. I simple brush them with a little oil and grind over some salt and pepper then bake them for 10 minutes at 160C, they are so deliciously crunchy. 

5. We were gifted 4 home grown avocados, with the price of avocados at the moment these are such a special treat.

Want to join in? I would love to know your frugal achievements from this past week.

Have a fab Friday,
💗Fi

Two Years Ago-Raspberry Cordial

YITRO 5778 – Europe: It's Time for Payback

YITRO 5778
Payback: Straw, Stone and Lead
by Rabbi Nachman Kahana

The book of Kings (Melachim) 1 chapter 21 relates the tragic story of King Achav of Yisrael, his wife Izevel (Jezebel), and Navoth (Naboth) the Yizreelite (Jezreelite) who inherited a family vineyard that bordered on Achav’s fields. When Achav offered to buy the vineyard, Navoth refused. Izevel had Navoth convicted on false charges and stoned to death. Achav then seized the vineyard.

Eliyahu the prophet appeared before the royal couple, denouncing them with the harsh accusation: “You murdered and seized (inherited) your victim’s property", implying that their conscience was so dulled that even the act of murder did not prevent them from stealing the man’s property from his legal heirs.

Eliyahu then prophesied that Achav and Izevel would soon die, and dogs would lap up their blood.

A New Song:   In the Shacharit (morning) prayers, just before the Shemoneh Esrei (Amida), we say:

“The redeemed people sang a new song of praise to Your name at the sea. They all, in unison, gave thanks and proclaimed Your sovereignty and said, ‘The Lord shall reign forever and ever.’”

Our sages called the song sung at the sea a “new song”, implying that there had previously been an “old song” that had been replaced by the new one. What was that old song, and what led to its replacement?

The Jewish people spent 210 years in Egypt, with the last 80 years involving dreadful slavery. In the last year of their sojourn in Egypt, the Jewish people experienced the enormous miracles that God performed: the ten plagues, the splitting of the sea, and more. They acknowledged those miracles and the One who performed them, and they prepared to sing a song of thanks to God for taking them out of Egypt, saving and redeeming them. Yet coupled with their joy over being saved and redeemed was a sense of discordance. Where was HaShem during the harsh years of servitude, beatings and murders? These mixed feelings inhibited their initial ability to sing with feelings of absolute gratitude.

In Az Yashir, the “new” song they ultimately sang at the sea, we find that the Egyptians were divided into three groups:

“Moshe and the Israelites then sang this song to HaShem…. The depths covered them (the Egyptians). They sank to the bottom like a stone… In your great majesty You broke your opponents. You sent forth your wrath. It devoured them like straw…. You made Your wind blow. The sea covered them. They sank like lead in the mighty waters”.

Yalkut Shimoni explains that the “stone”, “straw” and “lead” describes the death in the sea of three types of Egyptians: the most wicked, those in between, and the mildly wicked. The most wicked died a slow death, like “straw” on the water’s surface, which does not sink quickly. The “stone” alludes to those in between, who drowned after a bit of suffering. The “lead” refers to the mildly wicked, who died quickly, just as lead sinks quickly in water.

Every Jew could see his own slave-master – be he absolutely wicked, in between, or mildly wicked – and they saw each one die in accordance with his own level of wickedness. From this they understood that God was with the Jewish people every single moment throughout the years of enslavement and was aware of the cruelty that was perpetrated on His people. The redeemed Jews understood that they had erred in thinking that HaShem had only appeared for the rescue but not been with them throughout the years of enslavement.

Therefore, after they crossed the sea, they replaced the old song with an updated wording that expressed their new understanding based on what they had witnessed at the Sea of Reeds.

Poland and Christian Europe

Poland is now attempting to cover up their nationwide role in destroying the over 3 million Jews who lived there for 1000 years, and seizing their property in the spirit of, “You have murdered and seized your victim’s property”.

The Poles were not the only murderers of our people in the Shoah, but they were among the worst. The Germans headed the list. Close behind were the Poles, Ukrainians, Lithuanians, Latvians, Romanians, Hungarians, the French, the British – indeed all of Christian Europe. They didn’t have to be brainwashed to perpetrate the most bestial acts against their Jewish neighbors, the German just paved the way for them to vent their Christian hatred and feel good about it – to murder and disregard the claims of the survivors.

For these Christian nations, the Shoah was just one more of countless pogroms inflicted over 2000 years, just larger and more appealing to the evil nature of the descendants of Esav.

Payback Time

Payback time is quickly approaching for Europe. There will be nations that will suffer much like the straw, and those who will suffer less like the stone and the lead. The plagues are beginning to show in Germany, which has willingly and insanely invited millions of Moslems into their land. From Germany, it will metastasize to all the surrounding countries, engulfing each one according to its place on the scale of evil.

At the end of the day, there will be no more Christian Europe to speak of.

The Jewish people left the Reed Sea experience spiritually and materially prepared to receive the Torah at Sinai.

For the Jews, the Shoah remains an immense spiritual and physical open wound. But for the gentiles of Europe, it was the beginning of the death throes of Esav.

Shabbat Shalom,
Nachman Kahana

The Happy Home of Gray Benko

Hejsan! I hope you're having a great week? I'm enjoying my last few hours on Sweden's west coast  (join me on a hike between Fiskebäckkil and Sundsvik on Instagram stories right now) - it's such a beautiful part of the world!). Even so, it's not lost on me that today is officially the first day of Sweden's coldest month of the year - so to brighten things up a little, I thought we'd escape to sunnier climes here on the blog and the fabulous home of the photographer, Gray Benko, her husband and two children in South Carolina. Captured by Clay Austin for the Glitter Guide, Gray's home is one of those that's sunny on the outside and inside. Think a century old house with splashes of colour, one-off pieces and a lorry load of love and laughter!







This luxurious looking blue velvet sofa is the kind of piece you can dress up or dress down - and it looks soooo cosy! It goes beautifully with the Beni Ourain rug too.



This is the record player seen in the far corner. Very cool!





I love, love, LOVE the idea of a wall of portraits. Try Etsy for similar.



This is the cutest picture! I'm such a fan of Boucherouite rugs too, pick up a similar one here.













This bed is fabulous, don't you think? I found it here. And I'll never tire of the La Voliere pendant lamp











Photography: Clay Austin /  @clayaustin 

Isn't it the most fabulous family home? So vibrant!

There are just millions of ideas to steal - and every time I go back through the pictures I get more inspiration!

You can see more of Gray's home and read the full interview over on the Glitter Guide

I'm skipping tomorrow's post to focus on a new (and exciting project) - plus my Mother and Father are arriving from London tonight - I can't wait!!

Have a wonderful weekend and see you Monday!

Meretz Leader Calls Rabbi Eliyahu a Despicable Term!

Meretz Leader *Zehava Gal-On Calls Rabbi Eliyahu Shlit”a chv”s “Filth”!
[see also below]

Rabbi Amichai Eliyahu, son of Rabbi of Tzfat Shmuel Eliyahu, responded to Meretz head Zehava Gal-On following her remarks against his father, who opposes the IDF's joint service order mandating mixed-gender units.

"'Filth'?! I think the ones who have to wash the filth from their hands are you and those like you. You, whose hands are full of the blood of the victims you brought us under the Oslo Accords"

"For years I've been asking myself how people like you go to sleep at night. How you can fall asleep without hearing the voices of those children whose deaths you brought about.

"After systematically importing murderers from Tunis to Israel, you placed weapons in their hands. You silenced dissenters. You violated the basic right of people to speak and cry out and make their voices heard, after you sealed your hearts to the cries of the families of the murdered. The murdered whose deaths you and your ilk brought about!"

However, the rabbi's son writes, "I don't think you're filth; your hypocrisy is the filth. You, who dedicate your entire life to weakening the IDF, who hounds soldiers who give themselves and their lives for this nation, the nation that you're trying to fragment and demolish. That you lent your hand to buy a car for a corrupt Knesset member for the price of the Oslo Accords. Once you clean yourself of all this, you'll be able to understand that the rabbis and educators are encouraging the girls to contribute to the Jewish people in hospitals, cyber units, outlying schools, and more.

"It's difficult for girls to be pushed into a tank with boys. It's difficult that you ignore sexual attraction on the one hand while screaming about sexual abuse on the other. It's difficult that you obscure physiological differences. It's difficult when a company commander gets slapped by a girl terrorist and does nothing. It's difficult that soldiers flee from a ramming attack in Armon Hanatziv. It's difficult and therefore the rabbis gently criticize, but adamantly continue to encourage the youth to enlist and contribute to the State of Israel, each in a way that suits him. Unfortunately, the division of labor is as follows: You'll continue to encourage Breaking the Silence, B'Tselem, and Hamas, and we'll continue to educate our children to contribute to the country - even to people like you.”


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Source: arutzsheva

*she needs her mouth washed out with soap; and she’s in for a measure of retribution.

See Also: 'Haredi community a threat to Israel's democracy’. Former Kadima MK Yochanan Plesner, who now heads the influential Israel Democracy Institute, warned that the demographic growth of the haredi community is a threat to Israel's democracy due to what he claims is the community's lack of respect for liberal norms. arutzsheva

Granddaughter of Maran HaGaon HaRav Chaim Kanievsky Received an Order to Appear at the Enlistment Office!

This week’s Parsha is Yisro and the Giving of the Torah on Har Sinai, and We Have to Learn About This *Tragedy:

Mekubal Rav Yaakov Adas Blames IDF For Ruining 1000s Of Women Who Were Returning To Teshuvah

YWN-ISRAEL reported that chareidi representatives in Knesset met with senior military officials including IDF Chief of Staff Lt.-General Gadi Eizenkott […]

Kikar Shabbos News on Wednesday Tu B’Shevat reports it obtained a secret document from Mekubal Rabbi Yaakov Adas from the gathering of the Sephardi rabbonim, in which Rav Adas reveals serious facts, which he reports to have heard from Avi Abuchatzera, an aide to Defense Minister Avigdor Lieberman.

According to Rav Adas, the army recently changed the procedures for recruiting girls, erasing the world of baalei teshuvah among secular girls who began a process of becoming frum, and thousands of girls who began to grow stronger in their Yiddishkheit fell into the army and left the teshuva process R”L.

In addition, Rabbi Adas refers to the changes in the army regarding the recruitment of chareidi females and reveals that 


even the granddaughter of Maran HaGaon HaRav Chaim Kanievsky received an order to appear at the enlistment office, which was inconceivable.

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The following is a translation of the Kikar Shabbos Hebrew report of Rav Adas’ words:

“Whom am I to speak before these rabbonim shlita and the tzibur hakadosh, but it happened that I had to study this issue carefully, because there are many who deny reality, and what I say are things that I received from the greatest experts, and the experts I spoke with Knesset Member Rabbi Porush and with Rabbi Deri.

“I spoke with Rabbi Shaul Kanievsky, son of the Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky, and he agreed to everything I say, and I spoke with many others who are involved in the matter.

“The teshuvah movement exists for decades, and we are all aware there are tens of thousands of families of baalei teshuvah, many having married as baalei teshuvah. There are far more yeshivos for male baalei teshuva than female and as a result, woman have to return to teshuva on their own.

“The very first shiur of Lev L’Achim for girls begins in 12th grade, after finishing high school. The effort is not made earlier for parents object to the process, objecting to stopping school before matriculation exams. In addition, the classes are mixed, boys and girls. Because of these factors, efforts to make them frum only begin after 12th grade.

“Avi Abuchatzera, the defense minister’s aide, told me that in recent years, many thousands of girls who until recently had been exempt because they are in the process of becoming religious, however, their exemptions are now being canceled. The numbers the assistant had told me were much higher than I actually said, but to avoid being overstated, I say only thousands.

“They bring evidence against the girls that they are not religious enough. After all, a girl who begins to repent does not happen in one day. There are those who leave everything and repent, but there are many who are a matter of process, and these are rejected today.

“Thousands of girls who were supposed to repent today, to our great regret, are secular because of this terrible decree, they have changed the procedures, and what used to happen easily has resulted into probes into their lives. This they claim is nothing! We are dealing with thousands of women. Anyone working with baalei teshuvah know this to be so as they are just interested into doubling their numbers.

Rabbi Adas said that Rav Shaul Kanievsky told him, “You do not have to convince me, my own daughter received an order to the recruitment office.”

“This daughter, she is not only the granddaughter of Hagaon HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, but she lives in the same house, and since Rebitzen Kanievsky died, she moved in next door and connected the apartments. They live together, so she was invited to the recruitment office.”

“What are they doing this for?

“I say what I hear from them, there are many girls who are dropped out and do not really observe Torah and mitzvos and the army wants to find out about it, so they investigate.

“Why is this wrong?

“Of course, taking secular soldiers into the army is wrong, but anyone who deals with women off the derech knows that over 80% return within a few months, but the army wants to take them and abduct them. The problem is that today, the askanim are the ones who lead the matter.

We need to know that there is a Gezeira. WHat should we do? I do not know. But what I do know is that tefilla is always helpful – but I do not say that tefilla is enough. Someone must act, but at least each one should daven from the bottom of his heart that they cannot draft bnos yisrael.

“The situation in the army today regarding what happens to the girls is many times worse than in the past, it’s not me saying this but secular people told me, there are all kinds of extreme people in the army who did very serious things there between the boys and the girls, but this is not the forum to discuss this”.

(YWN – Israel Desk, Jerusalem)

[me: this is utterly disgraceful. such a gezeira?? it means we have to turn the country upside down to protect the Jewish traditions of our Nation, handed down from Mt Sinai; and this week is the Parsha of Yisro. *In my estimation, this is related directly to the devastating relaxation of the values of TSNIUS among some of our Jewish Girls and Women, and a message to our Rabbonim to do something.]

February’s Top Ten

I cannot believe 1/12th of the year is already gone.  Measuring my goals this way seems easier, but it makes me painfully aware of how fast time really goes.  January was a good month, and I am hoping for the same from February. My goals are:
  1. Do the once a month shopping again complete with menu plan (still clearing out the freezer.)
  2. Finish the skull shawl — coming over from last month.
  3. Get a couple of pinto recipes tested and shared — coming over from last month.
  4. Continue utilizing the journal and print some of my own customized stickers.
  5. Make a concentrated effort to work a few more food storage items into our meals.
  6. Find black out curtains for my bedroom.
  7. Finish up my final projects for my courses a week before due.
  8. Do my yoga exercises twice a week...three would be ideal, but for now I’ll be happy with twice.
  9. Find the perfect birthday present for my grandson.
  10. Bake a loaf of gluten free bread.
(I know number 10 sounds odd, but every week for January I  said, “I’m going to bake myself some bread.”  Every week I ended up putting it on the back burner.  By adding it to my list I am hoping I will actually get it done.
Do you have any goals for February?

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