الخميس، 1 نوفمبر 2018

This Weeks 5 Frugal Things on a Friday

Hello Dear Reader,

As I mentioned last week, our daughter and partner have been down this way working and also to celebrate our daughters birthday, so we've had extra bodies in the house. Although you wouldn't know it, they are perfect house guests and except for a few family dinners they have done their own thing, visiting friends and other family as well as working long hours.

Our daughter will be with us for a little while longer, while her partner flew home on Wednesday for work and to keep their home fires burning. They have two beautiful cats (Bengals) as well as a lovely female dachshund, unfortunately they lost their male dog earlier this year. They are lucky to have an excellent house sitter to take care of their pets while they are out of town.

 Mochi and Yuki

Jack and Lilly with lovely hubby last year, while we were up there visiting the kids

So even though we have had extra family in the house, we have just done our normal thing of living a quiet and simple life. We had three family dinners, last Thursday, Saturday and Wednesday, then it was just lovely hubby, our daughter and I for last nights dinner.

Along with extra family comes extra food in the house, I have to admit I feel quite overwhelmed when I have more food in the house than usual. Our fridge and fruit bowl have been very full, but I still made sure all food was used in a timely manner and made sure nothing went to waste.

Along with this frugal trait here's what else we got up to on the frugal front-

1. Made some fabulous pizzas with the leftover roast lamb from our daughter birthday dinner. I use Jamie Oliver's recipe for the pizza dough, that we learnt at the last Jamie's Ministry of Food, you can find the recipe here.


2. Rinsed the quinoa for this wonderful Chickpea and Quinoa Salad over a bucket to catch the water, our water charges are eye watering, so I save as much water as I can. Quinoa takes a lot of water to rinse properly.


3. Froze the rest of the dill I used for this Salmon, Pea and Potato Frittata


4. Used up some squishy bananas in this recipe


5. Cooked at home for our family dinners




5a. Couldn't help but sneak this one in, I used up the rest of the large amount of tomatoes I had bought a couple of weeks ago, by slow roasting them, I used this recipe and they are just divine.


That's a wrap, join in, what did you get up to on the frugal front?

Have a lovely day,
💗Fi

One Year Ago-Easy Pork Larb

November’s Supper Plans


My eye surgery went well, but I’m still glad I planned a simple supper for tonight.  The next surgery will be Tuesday, and I may be switching that day out with something else.  Perhaps I’ll trade it with the day before.  

Rav Richter on Pittsburgh: Some Insights and Torah Wisdom (Part 1)


Recommended:  Rav Richter Gives Us a Wake Up Call



Rav Richter gives his analysis of the Pittsburgh shooting, together with his wisdom, and Torah insights. I found many of the things he pointed out to be very insightful.

Here is something I caught from the following discourse:

Meshech Hochmah, on Reb Meir Simcha, written before the Shoah (leviticus 26:44) about Divine Providence: Hashem gives the Jew a rest of 50 years, or 200 years, [in one golus or another] and then a tsunami will arise without mercy because we have forgotten “We are Strangers in a Strange Land”, to remind the Jew he is a Jew; and another Storm arises to make the Jew go out from there (as opposed to Avraham and Lech Lecha).

What I caught was that there is a connection/remez of the Meir Simcha and the name of the Temple in Pittsburgh: Or L’SIMCHA. That’s it, Meir Simcha and the Or L’Simcha. There are other remazim that the Rav speaks about, from Bereshis Rabba 33:8 and Yalkut Shimoni on parshas Noach, about the Dove.

In Deuteronomy 28, it says the Jewish People will not find rest for their feet [in their wanderings] and that the Dove also did not find rest for his feet. From this our Sages say there will only be temporary rest [in our many golus], but then it will be time to move on. Reb Dov bar Leib also spoke lengthy about the Dove

Another interesting thing he pointed out, this Temple started out as an Orthodox Synagogue 154 years ago, being one of the oldest in America, a foundation of American Jewry, representing roots, Jewish roots in a foreign country, in America.

28 years ago, 18 Marcheshvan in NY R Kahane (57 yrs) was murdered - same day at the Pittsburgh

He spoke about ZERO an emergency evacuation of Jews from America - his last words
There are no coincidences. Everything is a sign from above. Rabbi Kahane: "Liquidate the exile before the exile liquidates you."

The ADL (1979) stated that antisemitic incidents surged in 2017 by 57%.
Marvin Heir said we may be at the beginning of what started in Europe, and he’s afraid the worst is yet to come.
Crown Heights - Two Jews attacked with rocks
Bklyn Chicago Los Angeles Crown Heights Lakewood The antisemitism is increasing everywhere.

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Rabbi Winston on The Mixed Multitude and Moshiach is Here Already

The most fearful enemy of the Jewish nation today
Mixed multitude of and the Land of Israel.

The Jewish people are a real mix today. There are so many groups, ranging from Orthodox to Reconstructionist, and all kinds of levels of belief in-between. One group among them all is considered to be the most dangerous to the future of the Jewish people and the world in general. Called “The Mixed Multitude” in the Torah, they are the mistake that keeps on mistaking. Their allies have included the likes of Balak and Bilaam . . . . Ask The Rabbi, November 10th 2015 (this may not play out fully, so I posted the following shiur)

Moshiach is Here Already

“Today, it is so much easier than, let’s say, 10 years ago, to want Moshiach (messiah) to come, because things are out of control… If you step back and look at all the events of history, everything is so ‘Armageddon-ish’. It’s actually quite bad. The world is actually tremendously unstable.”

“The only reason why we are sitting here so calmly right now is not because the world has stability. It’s because HaKadosh Baruch Hu (The Holy One, Blessed Be He) has His finger in the dike.”

“And now we’re approaching the Final Redemption. Without question. Moshiach is around the corner… Without question he’s here already. I don’t know how old he is, where he’s sitting, what he’s doing, what he’s learning. But he’s here. He’s not going to be born tomorrow. We’re just too close to the end. Way too close to the end. He has to be here right now!

The Mixed Multitude By Rabbi Winston (Parshas Balak):

And Balak son of Tzippor saw all that Israel did to the Amori. Moav were very afraid because the people were many, and they became very agitated because of the Children of Israel. (Bamidbar 22:2)

According to pshat (the simple understanding) of the above verses, we are talking only about the Children of Israel. However, in the Hebrew text, the reference to “the people” is “ha-umm,” which, according to tradition, usually refers to the “Erev Rav,” the Mixed Multitude that left Egypt with the Jewish people.

If so, that would explain an apparent repetition in the second posuk. The posuk would flow better if it simply said:  Moav was very afraid and agitated because of the Children of Israel.

However, there is a reference both to “the people,” and, the “Children of Israel,” the first being a source of great fear, and, the second group being a source of great agitation. Furthermore, is it not safe to assume that if the first group was a source of great fear, it would also cause great anxiousness as well?

Therefore, it would not be unreasonable to assume that Balak and Moav were well aware of the fact that the Jewish camp contained two parts, an essential part — the smaller body of Jewish-born individuals referred to as the “Children of Israel” — and, a second entity made up of converts to Judaism — the Erev Rav — which were very great in number.

There is precedence for this idea:
Paroah noticed these two levels, and with regard to the converts, he said, “Behold! the people of the Children of Israel are many and stronger than us Š” (Shemos 1:9); this referred to the Erev Rav that left with Israel, who were twice the amount of the Jewish people, as our rabbis have taught (Mechilta, Bo, q.v. v’gum Erev Rav alah). They were “the people of B’nei Yisroel,” but not B’nei Yisroel themselves, and they were many and more powerful than the rest of the Egyptians called “the people of Paroah.

This was, however, not the case with respect to Israel, as is elucidated from the posuk, “Š and fighting (sholishim) men upon all of them.” (Shemos 14:7); there were thirty (shloshim) Egyptians to every Jew. Concerning B’nei Yisroel themselves they said, “Š they were bothered because of B’nei Yisroel” (Shemos 1:12; that is, like thorns in their eyes; Sotah 11a). It does not say “because of THE PEOPLE of B’nei Yisroel,” because their main hatred was directed toward B’nei Yisroel themselves.
Therefore Paroah said, “Let us deal wisely with them” (Shemos 1:10), that is, with Israel themselves, which will solve the problem of the converts, the “People of B’nei Yisroel.” (Arizal, Sha’arei HaPesukim)

You’ll notice that Paroah also had no fear of the numbers of the Jewish people, but, like Moav, was only greatly agitated by them. In fact, like Paroah before him, Balak and Moav do not simply attack “the people” outright, but, deal “wisely” with them, by contracting Bilaam — one of Paroah’s chief advisors back at the time of Jewish enslavement.

By why is everyone so afraid of the Erev Rav, even if they are so numerous? Don’t they usually undermine Jewish efforts to live by Torah?

So, Paroah himself answers that question:

“Let us deal wisely with them, in case they increase, and in the event that war occurs that they join our enemy and fight against us and escape the land.” (Shemos 1:10)

Who is the “they,” and who is the “enemy” that makes Paroah so nervous? Pshat-speaking, “they” are the Jewish people living within the borders of Egypt, and, the “enemy” is any OUTSIDE nation that might attack Egypt in the future. However, according to this deeper explanation of the words, “they” are the EREV RAV, and the “enemy,” like has usually been the case throughout ALL of Jewish history, is the JEWISH PEOPLE themselves — the direct descendants of Avraham, Yitzchak, and Ya’akov, as well as all the “righteous converts” — as weak as they REALLY may be at the time.
After all, how strong were the Jews of Hitler’s (may his name be erased) Germany? How mighty have the Jews EVER been, politically- and militarily-speaking? Yet, we have been, and still are today (like in Iran, for example, and even in the Mid-West of the good ole USA, according to “The New York Times Magazine,” in an article about survivalists in the January 1999 issue) viewed as one of the most dangerous “enemies” in the history of the mankind!

Is it not one of the biggest ironies of all time?!

But then again, we can’t say this was not foretold:
Rav Chisda and Rabbah the son of Rav Huna both said: Why is it called “Sinai”? Because it is the mountain from which hatred (Hebrew: sinah) came down to the Nations-of-the-World … (Shabbos 89a)

This, of course, prompts a whole different discussion (which is detailed in “The Big Picture”). However, the question here is what about the Erev Rav — why did Paroah and Moav fear them? If anything, they seem to be an easy mark as far as unraveling their connection to anything Jewish?
Well, yes, and no. Paroah wasn’t born yesterday, nor was Balak and his people. They knew only too well that, for all of their problem-causing tendencies, they DID convert to Judaism (according to the Arizal), they had traveled with the Jewish people for forty years in the desert, and had witnessed the hand of G-d in all that had occurred for the Jewish people throughout their short history. They HAD been at Mt. Sinai and had experienced Kabbalos HaTorah; something had to be there inside of them.

Indeed, as the Arizal explains elsewhere, there was something very special deep within the Erev Rav, something deep within their very souls. And, Paroah and Balak were terrified of stirring that up, for, to instigate the Erev Rav in the WRONG direction is to cause them to join up with the small and seemingly harmless Children of Israel, and to transform them into a mighty and powerful nation. And that’s when all the fun begins for the nations of the world.

Therefore, the first priority of the day for any anti-Semite, be he a major on or minor one, is to “neutralize” the Erev Rav; to turn them against Torah, and to keep them from sympathizing with their “mothership,” B’nei Yisroel.

Who is the Erev Rav today?
It is clear that, just like there is no pure-bred Amaleki today (after so many years of inter-marriage of peoples; Brochos 28a), there is no pure-bred Erev Rav either. However, as the Arizal reveals, the gematria of “erev rav” (ayin-reish-bais, reish-bais, or, 70+200+2+200+2) is equal to “474,” the same numerical value of the Hebrew word “da’as” (dalet-ayin-tav, or, 4+70+400; Sha’ar HaPesukim, Parashas Shemos) — as in, Aitz HaDa’as Tov v’Rah, and this will have to be the topic of the next d’var Torah, b”H.

One of the first entries in the Zohar on this week’s parshah says so much through so little. The Zohar points out that the two names of Balak and Bilaam, when combined (and scrambled), yield two different, but equally familiar words: Amalek and Bavel (Babylonia). Amalek, of course, is THE nation that stands as the polar extreme of the Jewish people, and, Bavel was the location to which the Jewish people were first exiled, and where they met up with the most notorious descendant of Amalek ever: Haman the Evil!

Of Haman it says:
Where is Haman [referred to] in the Torah? “(Hamin) From the tree Š” (Bereishis 3:11). (Chullin 139b)

It’s a play on the word “hamin,” which is spelled the same way as the name “Haman” (heh-mem-nun), but it works. It works, because, whether this is really true or not doesn’t really matter; conceptually, it is 100% accurate: had Adam and Chava not eaten from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil there could have been no Amalek, and therefore, no Haman.

For, the gematria of the word “Amalek” is equal to that for the Hebrew word “doubt”: sufek, which equals “240.” The single most dramatic consequence of eating from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil against the will of G-d, and the cause of all other ills and evils throughout history, including death itself, was reduced intellectual and spiritual clarity.

As the Torah itself points out, the word “bavel” shares the same conceptual origin:
Therefore, G-d scattered them from there over the face of the whole earth, and they stopped building the city, which is called “Bavel,” be-cause that is where G-d confounded [navlah] the language of the whole earth. (Bereishis 11:8-9)

Of all the responses with which G-d could have hit the people of the tower, why did changing and confusing their speech make the top of the list? Only because speaking the same language facilitated expedient construction of the tower and rebellion against G-d? Unlikely.

Rather, as Onkeles points out back at the beginning of man’s entrance onto the stage of history (Bereishis 2:7), speech represents man’s godliness, and, later, the purpose of the entire Jewish nation (Sanhedrin 99b). Hence, G-d confused their language because they confused the purpose of creation. They were plagued by doubt about G-d and the purpose of creation, and, as a result, plagued mankind with their doubt. This is the deep, inherent, profound, and extremely dangerous connection between Amalek and Bavel, and the offspring of the union of Balak and Bilaam — whose whole power was in his speech (Rashi, Bamidbar 22:4).

What was their goal? To destroy the Jewish people? Could they do that which the giants they had hired for protection — Sichon and Og — could not do? Could they succeed where Paroah and the elite of the Egyptian army failed miserably?

Says the Shem M’Shmuel: Of course not. So, what then were they up to? They certainly looked busy trying to undermine the strength and invulnerability of the Jewish people! They were, but not by destroying them, answers the Shem M’Shmuel, but by creating a situation that would result in at least PART of the Jewish nation not wanting to entire Eretz Yisroel.

Were they successful?
You better believe it, for, because of Balak’s and Bilaam’s influence, Reuven and Gad later requested to remain on the east of the Jordan river — for reasons of livelihood, of all things — and THAT, says the Midrash Rabbah, was the official spiritual beginning of the Babylonian Exile! Which, we can assume, we have never recovered from, and which haunts us to this very day, thanks to Balak and Bilaam.

For, as Rav Wolfson (Emunas Itechah, BeHa’alosecha) points out, the word “Yardein” (Jordan), the river the Jewish people had to cross to enter Eretz Yisroel, is made up of two parts: yarad and the letter “nun.” The “nun,” of course, refers to the “Nun Sha’arei Binah,” the famous “Fifty Gates of Understanding,” that, apparently, would have descended (yarad) down to the Jewish people upon crossing that river in unity and with undivided commitment to Torah values.

What would that have represented? That would have meant a return to the intellectual and spiritual clarity of Adam before the sin, and, the complete and utter eradication of Amalek and all of his “relatives” — for good! Which, of course, is what terrified Balak and Bilaam most of all, for, that also meant their final demise, also for good!

So, it is in the best interest and service of the Balaks and Bilaams of history — even the Jewish ones — to sow seeds of doubt and confusion in the minds and hearts of Jews, to achieve only one result: to keep at least SOME Jews out of Eretz Yisroel. Indeed, as long as some of the Jewish people remain strongly attached to foreign lands, and even feel morally “justified” in rejecting Eretz Yisroel as THEIR homeland, then, redemption, Moshiach, and world completion remains a distant reality, leaving plenty of room for more confusion and physical and spiritual terrorism.

I don’t usually do this, but the following comment is too universal, and I have read it and received it so many times that I can’t help but quote it here. It is such a good example of what I have just written about; indeed, it was very much responsible for the direction of this segment of “Perceptions.” Here it is:

“Reading ‘Perceptions’ on this week’s parshah (Shlach-Lecha), I get the impression that it is critically important for Jews to live in Eretz Yisroel. Why then are there so many religious Jews in foreign countries not making attempts to make aliyah? Why is this issue not even discussed more in shuls and study groups everywhere (to at least create a desire for and understanding of Eretz Yisroel)? Some people I’ve shown your article to say that, because Israel today is a “secular” state, we should not feel obligated to be there Š”

Is that what Eretz Yisroel has become to Jews — an obligation? That’s funny Š That’s not what the Torah calls her, not Eretz Yisroel, not Torah, or the World-to-Come (Brochos 5a). No, in the Talmud ALL THREE are called “GIFTS,” you know, as in something given to you THAT YOU DON’T DESERVE, by someone who cares for you, and believes in benefiting you?

Talk about confusion. Talk about doubt. Talk about JEWISH doubt.

Well, Balak and Bilaam, you may be dead, but your legacy lives on, indeed, flourishes in the mind and heart of the modern Jew. Allow me one more quote, if you will:

“We must find freer, more creative, more inventive means … I am speaking of a cultural battle … Israeli historians themselves Š are in the process of reconsidering Zionist myths. We must use the contradiction and dissent that exist in the heart of the Israeli population.” (Leading Palestinian author and activist, Edward Said)

“Israeli population”? Try the bulk of the Jewish people living outside the land all over the world today. And when asked, “Do you think the Israelis will renounce Zionism one day?” Said answered,
“Some have begun to speak of it. I think that the most intelligent among them are in the process of realizing that, despite their incredible power, their situation is untenable.”

Parashas Balak and Bilaam may end this Shabbos, but, the battle against their influence continues to until this very day, and, it seems, will continue until Moshiach himself comes and strikes them down, once and for all.

Talk about role reversal! One moment, Bilaam is up in the mountains overlooking the Jewish camp, trying to curse the Jewish people, but forced instead to praise them for their modesty; the next moment the people are acting immorally with the daughters of Moav! How does one fall from “perfection” so fast.

Perhaps we can glean insight into this catastrophe, which happens to plague many societies today and did in the past, from a Mishnah dealing with this issue. The tractate is Kesuvos, which, obviously, deals with a man’s marital obligations to his wife (and vice-versa) and family (and which, “coincidentally,” contains a large section about the blessing of living in Eretz Yisroel toward the end).

The Mishnah teaches:
These are the things that a wife is obligated to perform for her husband Š And even if he brings into the house one hundred helpers, still, she should be compelled to work with wool, because doing nothing leads to promiscuous behavior Š (Mishnah, Kesuvos 59b)

We can assume, and prove from history, that this “principle” does not only apply to married women, but to everyone as well. And, we can also assume that the Mishnah’s choice of “working with wool” is merely an example of an activity that keeps a person busy, and away from negative influences (not all trades create situations of modesty). And, perhaps we can make a connection from this Mishnah to the end of our parshah, and reveal the vulnerability of life in a premature Garden of Eden.

Not everyone is cut out for life in the Garden of Eden at this point in history. In fact, just about nobody is, save for a few very, VERY righteous individuals who have divested themselves of the pleasures of This World. As for the rest of us, the struggle does us a lot of good. It refines us, and defines us, and makes us grow and become great.

In fact, elsewhere the Talmud sums up our period of history with the following little saying:

Rav Yitzchak said: If a person tells you, “I tried, but did not succeed,” don’t believe him; “I did not try, but succeeded,” don’t believe him; “I tried and succeeded,” believe him Š (Megillah 6b)

In the end, the Talmud concludes that this only applies to becoming “sharper” in Torah-learning (i.e., people can succeed in business with little effort and fail though they have made great effort).

However, we know from the following: According to the effort is the reward. (Pirkei Avos 5:22) — that success IS the effort made.



Source Torah.org

Why Do Cars Fall Apart So Completely in Accidents?


Photo: arutzsheva

Horrible, Very Tragic, Never Saw Anything Like This Before . . .
This is what we hear from rescue crews nowadays

I remember many years ago, that cars used to offer some protection when involved in traffic accidents. Nowadays, most cars are totaled from ANY kind of traffic mishap. Could it be that manufacturers are making cars cheaply, with near inferior construction, that once involved in a traffic mishap, ESPECIALLY IN ISRAEL, they completely fall apart. Dare I pose the question that this might be deliberate? Perhaps it is good for business; greater profit; increased demand for imports from that particular nation that supplies ISRAEL with their yearly imports? And greater expense to repair those dents, scratches, and crushed fenders.

"Why are cars so fragile?”

"It has to do with physics and safety regulations. Cars are intentionally built to crumple on impact to absorb the shock of said impact. If the car had a rigid frame that didn’t crumple, the people inside would go flying through the windshield if the car hit anything at speed, because the inertial forces involved would mandate that anything inside the car keep moving forward. You know, ‘an object in motion will stay in motion’ and all that stuff you learn in physics class. […] And that is why manufacturers use fragile frames (besides the fact that you have to pay an extravagant amount to fix them).” quora.com  Why do cars need such fragile frames, not able to protect passengers at all.

Illegal Car Trade if the West Bank:

The road from Eizariya to Abu Dis, located in the largely IDF-controlled areas B and C of the West Bank, is replete with restaurants, coffee shops, electronics, and illegal cars, many illegal cars. Without even asking car owners, Fadi, a resident of Abu Dis, knows exactly which cars are mushtuba, local slang for illegal cars. “Look, to your left, there’s another one,” he says. “Here in Eizariya, we have no law, so 90 percent of the cars are illegal,” he chuckles. post

Not to mention the Palestinian car thieves, who recycle (sic!) parts into weapons.

الأربعاء، 31 أكتوبر 2018

Caramel Bananas

Hello Dear Reader,

Just a really quick little recipe today. I had three slightly daggy bananas looking at me from the fruit bowl on Saturday and as I dislike waste of any sort and we were having a family dinner, I thought I would make some kind of dessert out of them.

Growing up, one of our most favourite and simple desserts was sliced banana, warm, home made custard and coconut sprinkled over the top, it was always such a treat. I did think about replicating this humble, childhood dessert, but in this instance I felt like caramel, so Caramel Bananas happened in my kitchen on Saturday night.

Ingredients for Caramel Bananas, clockwise from left-50 grams of butter, melted, 3 to 4 bananas, sliced in half lengthways, 1 tablespoon maple syrup and 100 grams of brown sugar

Add the brown sugar and maple syrup to the melted butter

And stir to combine

Lay sliced bananas in a small, shallow, greased casserole dish, pour over caramel sauce and bake for 20 minutes at 200C till golden and bubbly.

We served the bananas with vanilla ice-cream, with the gorgeous caramel sauce spooned over the top. Talk about easy and delicious!

What do you make with slightly overripe bananas? And what was your most favourite childhood dessert?

Have a lovely day
💗Fi

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