الأحد، 30 سبتمبر 2018

Coconut Baked Egg Custard

Hello Dear Reader,

My Nan used to make baked egg custards quite a lot, I have vivid memories of visiting her early in the morning, usually before school, and the egg custard with it's grated nutmeg topping would already be done, sitting in its little buttered, enamel dish, ready for baking when the wood fired oven was up to heat.

Funnily enough, I can't remember Mum ever making one, maybe Dad wasn't a fan, in fact, just thinking about it now, I can't remember ever eating one for dessert when I was a child. I have made a few baked egg custards over the years and when I found this recipe amongst my late MIL's diary's, I thought it sounded wonderful.

I haven't given an exact amount for the shredded coconut, as there wasn't a quantity listed on the original recipe, I guess it comes down to the size of the baking dish you use, I just kept sprinkling the coconut over until it was totally covered.

Adding coconut to the top of the egg custard adds gorgeous flavour and of course texture, chewy, golden coconut sitting on top, just set, velvety custard. MMM, so good. I served ours warm, with ice-cream, but it is just lovely as it is.

The simple ingredients for Coconut Baked Egg Custard, clockwise from left-
3 eggs, 570 ml of milk, shredded coconut, 1/4 cup of white sugar

In a medium sized bowl, whisk the eggs and sugar together until light and fluffy

Now whisk in the milk

Pour into a buttered dish and liberally sprinkle over shredded coconut. Fill a high sided roasting pan with cold water so that it comes up about half way on your baking dish of choice. You will cook this baked custard in a Bain Marie 

Bake for about an hour in a 150 C oven, turning heat down to 130 C as the custard starts to set, checking for doneness at the 50 minute mark. It should be just set with a golden top.

I made this baked custard to use up some milk I had frozen in the freezer, I want to start eating down our freezer, using up all the bits and bobs hiding there. 

Over to you, are you a fan of old fashioned, baked egg custards?

Have a lovely day
💕Fi






السبت، 29 سبتمبر 2018

Throwing the Aravos onto the Aron Kodesh

Throwing the Aravos onto the Aron Kodesh

On Hoshana Rabba, the Arava, which corresponds to the lips, reigns supreme. The seventh day of Succos is also David HaMelech, the master of prayer's, Ishpizin. The lips appropriately belong to David, and we engage in prayer.

When the extensive Hoshana Rabba prayers are over, many have a custom of hurtling the Aravos onto the Aron Kodesh. That is because from Hoshana Rabba we rise yet higher realms, to Shemini Atzeres/Simchas Torah. We explain and discuss the meaning of Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur, Succos, Hoshana Rabba, but words fail us when we try to capture the significance of Sheminin Atzeres. The lips serve us no benefit, so we throw that which symbolizes them on top of the Aron Kodesh.

Who can grasp, let alone explain, the significance of Shemini Atzeres, when we experience a small degree of the intense closeness that will exist between Hashem and His people when Mashiach will come? Hugging the Torah and dancing, or joining in the festivities in our hearts and minds from wherever we are, we attempt to get a small taste of the great joy of being intimately bonded with Hashem.


Copyright © 2018 Shiurei Harav Moshe Wolfson Shlit"a, All rights reserved.

Sunny Side Up Sunday/One Second Every Day

Hello Dear Reader,

It's here, another month of one second every day. I have been doing this since February this year and as I've mentioned before, I just love it. There are quite a few days when I forgot to take a video though, as you can clearly see by the amount of still photos amongst the one second snatches of my everyday life. Lots of blue sky, our dogs, Lulu and Pippa, food, tea, Ninja our black cat, the beach, ducks, seed saving, sticky date pudding, making scones and progress with the raised garden beds, all feature in this months 1SE. Enjoy.


Have a lovely day,
💗Fi

One Year Ago-What we bought, spent and ate this week
Two Years Ago-This Weeks 5 Frugal Things on a Friday

الجمعة، 28 سبتمبر 2018

What we bought, spent and ate this week

Hello Dear Reader,

Well, that week went quickly, the weeks are zipping by lately. Do you find the weeks just fly by or do they grind slowly for you? I know the longest day of the week has to be Friday, and I am sure the shortest will be this coming Monday, which is a public holiday for Queen Elizabeths' Birthday. We have a lot to do over this long weekend as our Son and his beautiful Partner will be moving in next door, to move into my late MIL's home.

They have great plans to renovate the home to make it more modern and have already sourced a builder who will do the work for them. The home will look completely different when they have finished. It is very livable the way it is and they will just do a bit at a time. I am so excited for them both to start this new chapter of their lives.

I have hit the grocery shops, twice again, this past week looking for marked down produce, I found some great bargains and they will go towards next week menu. Every little bit is a saving.

What we bought

The Aldi Shop

Shopping from Northside Discount Fruit Barn

Markdowns from Woolworths


Markdowns from Coles

What we spent
Aldi-$56.05
Northside Discount Fruit Barn-$36.70
Woolworths-$17.15
Coles-7.92

TOTAL-$117.82-YESSS!
What we ate

  Friday-Leftover Tuscan Meatballs with egg noodles

Saturday-Spinach, Bacon and Feta Stuffed Mushrooms

Sunday and Wednesday-Slow Roasted BBQ Pork and Coleslaw burgers

Monday-Tempura Whiting with steamed Basmati rice and Choy Sum

Tuesday-Roast Chicken with roasted potato, pumpkin and steamed broccolini

Thursday-Stir Fried Kalettes with Chorizo and Mushrooms over Mashed Sweet Potato

With our son and partner now moving next door, I think you will see lots more "leftover" meals on our weekly menu. It will certainly be strange not to have to cook every single night. So a new chapter in our lives has begun. #emptynesters😉

Have a lovely day,
💗Fi

Two Years Ago-Sorrell Soup

Gan Eden in the Succah

Simchas Beis HaShoeva 
SHABBOS CHOL HAMOED SUCCOS
Shalosh Seudah Torah
by Harav Moshe Wolfson Shlit"a

The Repeated Command to Sit in the Sukkah

"בסוכות תשבו שבעת ימים כל ,The command to sit in the Sukkah is repeated You shall sit in Sukkos for seven days, every citizen ,האזרח בישראל ישבו בסוכותא" of Israel shall sit in Sukkos.

,"תשבו כעין תדורוב" teaches תשבו The Gemara explains that the first word that one must sit in the Sukkah just like he lives in his home. One of the laws we learn from this is that sitting in the Sukkah has to be similar to regular living, so that מצתער פטור מן הסוכה, if someone is suffering because of his sitting in the Sukkah - e.g. it is raining – he is exempt from sitting in the Sukkah.

The Zohar explains the repeated command as follows: The first command the seven guests that Hashem sends to ,אושפיזין is directed at the "בסוכות תשבו" us in the Sukkah; Avraham, Yitzchak, Yaakov, Moshe, Aharon, Yosef and Dovid. The second command, "כל האזרח בישראל ישבו" is directed at every Jew.

The רמז, allegorical connotation, of a verse is always a deeper layer of the What is the connection between the Gemara’s .גthe plain explanation ,פשט explanation, that בסוכות תשבו teachesתשבו כעין תדורו, that one who suffers from sitting in the Sukkah is exempt from the Mitzvah, and the Zohar’s deeper explanation, that these words are directed at the ?אושפיזין

The Avos Join us for the Simcha (Joyful Celebration) of Sukkos

The Sefas Emes teaches that Gan Eden is the source of all simcha. We bless a Chassan and Kallah that they should rejoice, "כשמחך יצירך בגן עדן", as your Creator gladdened you in Gan Eden.
The Trisker Maggid said that inside the Sukkah is an environment of Olam Habah, the utopian world of Gan Eden.ד We can explain that this is so because Sukkos is 'זמן שמחתנו', a time of rejoicing and this simcha is derived from Gan Eden.

The Zohar teaches that when a Jew makes a family celebration such as a wedding, Bar Mitzvah, or Bris, Hashem forces his ancestors out of Gan Eden and makes them descend to this world to partake in their offspring’s happiness.

They need to be forced out of Gan Eden because no event on this world, no matter how joyous, can compete with the infinite bliss of Gan Eden.

Because Sukkos is a Yom Tov of Simcha, our ancestors, the אושפיזין, join us, just like all grandparents join at the simchos of their offspring.

However, Hashem would not force the holy אושפיזין out of Gan Eden to join us. Because we have the Gan Eden in the Sukkah, they happily come down to us.

We can now connect the plain meaning of the words "'בסוכות תשבו וכו" that the Gemara teaches – that מצטער פטור מן הסוכה - and the Zohar’s deeper  explanation – that this command is directed at the .אושפיזין

If the אושפיזין would suffer when forced to leave Gan Eden to sit in the מצטער פטור מן Sukkah, they would not be required to sit in the Sukkah because   אושפיזין can fulfill their directive of joining us in the Sukkah. However, within the Sukkah there is an atmosphere of Gan Eden and the !הסוכה

In the Sukkah there is sufficient Gan Eden for even the אושפיזין who are accustomed to a five star Gan Eden. Every Jew can appreciate the Gan Eden of the Sukkah according to his individual capacity. The more we connect to holiness, the more we can appreciate and enjoy it.

ויקרא כג:מב א
סוכה כו ע"א ב
עי' ערבי נחל בענין קרית ספר ג
בספרו, מגן אברהם ד

An Understanding of Hoshanah Rabbah, Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah

We Build Yerushalayim During This Time of the Year

On the ninth day of Av, as the ruins of Yerushalayim still smoldered, we begin the task of reconstructing the city in which the kingdom of Hashem was manifest.

We continued building Yerushalayim through the Teshuvah of Elul, the Shofar of Rosh Hashanah, the fasting of Yom Kippur, and the prayers we add during this intense time of the year. During Sukkos, we engage in the final stages of building Yerushalayim and with Hoshanah Rabbah, Shemini Atzeres, and Simchas Torah, the spiritual erection of Yerushalayim is completed.

The goal of this entire period, from the ninth of Av until Simchas Torah, is to build Yerushalayim.
What is the meaning of building Yerushalayim?

Yerushalayim is Malchus

Hashem created the world with seven spiritual powers. We refer to these powers as ‘Sefiros’ or ‘Middos’. The Seventh Middah is ‘Malchus’, Kingship. With Malchus, Hashem is sovereign in His world.

During exile, we don’t see Hashem as the King of His world. His house is destroyed and strange edifices replace it; his children, the Jewish People, are easy prey; blasphemy is the norm. ‘Malchus’ is exiled; the sovereignty of Hashem is not visible in the place where it should be, in Yerushalayim.
Hashem created the world so that His Presence should dwell within itא and it is in the erected Yerushalayim that the Shechina (divine presence) finds a dwelling. The building of Yerushalayim is the ultimate goal of Hashem in His creation of the world.

From Tisha B’Av until Shemini Atzeres we are engaged in 'בנין קומת המלכות', building Malchus. During this time of the year we focus on subjugating ourselves to the sovereignty of Hashem and praying for His Malchus to be revealed over the whole world.

Sefer Devarim Corresponds to Malchus

There are two verses in Sefer Bamidbar which constitute an entire Sefer of their own. These are"ויהי בנסועב" and "ובמנחה יאמר" which describe the journeying of the Aron (Ark). Accordingly, there "ויהי are not five, but seven sefarim (books) in the Torah; Bereishis, Shemos, Vayikra, Bamidbar until ג.these two verses, the rest of Bamidbar, and the Devarim ,בנסוע”

Sefer Devarim, the seventh Sefer, corresponds to Malchus, the seventh Middah. It corresponds to Yerushalayim in which the Malchus of Hashem was manifest. ספר דברים is Gematria (has the numerical value of) ירושלים, (they both equal 596).

Indeed, we begin reading Devarim the week preceding the Tisha B’Av and conclude it on .בנין קומת המלכות Shemini Atzeres. We read the sefer of Malchus during the time that we engage in the fortified walls surrounding Yerushalayim, is the phrase we use to refer to ,'חומות ירושלים' Yerushalayim when it is whole, i.e. when the Shechina dwells within her.1

The Walls of Yericho Oppose the Walls of Yerushalayim

There is a city, which is diametrically opposed to Yerushalayim. When its 'חומה' is built, 'חומות'  the of Yerushalayim are destroyed. This city is Yericho which is the first city the Jewish People conquered during their conquest of Eretz Yisroel.

The fortifications of Yericho were the headquarters of evil. They served as one of the walls for the house of ‘Rachav the harlot’. In her home, 'לילית', the feminine aspect of the power of evil, found its haven. The walls surrounding Yericho had to come down in order for holiness to be revealed on Earth.

According to the command of Hashem, the Jewish People circled the city and blew the Shofar for six days. On the seventh day, they circled Yericho seven times and then blew a mighty blast. The impenetrable fortress fell without as much as a single catapult. This showed the world the great ד.power of Hashem

Destroying the חומה of Yericho on Hoshanah Rabbah

On the first six days of Sukkos, the entire congregation circles the Bimah (the center table of the synagogue on which we put the Torah to read from) once with their ‘swords’, the Lulav, unsheathed for battle. They recite ‘Hoshanos’, a prayer that begins and ends with the words – ‘Hosha Na’, ‘[Hashem] Please help!’

On Hoshanah Rabbah, the seventh day, the congregation circles the Bimah seven times, and recites seven different ‘Hoshanos’ prayers.

On Hoshanah Rabbah, the verdict we were handed on Yom Kippur is finalized. It is referred to as the 'יום החותם', the day that our verdict is sealed.

fortress. The circling of the Bimah that ,חומת ,seal, has the same letters as the word ,חותם takes place on Hoshanah Rabbah destroys חומת Yericho, the fortresses of evil, and the verdict is sealed, חותם, that the side of holiness will receive all the bounty and the powers of evil will not be able to partake of it.

Every year on Hoshanah Rabbah, before Shemini Atzeres when the חומה of Yerushalayim is to be completed, we first destroy the חומה of Yericho, i.e. the powers of evil.

The Power of Hoshanah Rabbah

On Hoshanah Rabbah, we take off the rings that are on the Lulav before shaking it. Taking off these rings has symbolic meaning.

In Megilas Esther, we find that the authority of the King was vested in his ring because it contained the royal signet. Achashveirosh gave Mordechai the power that Haman had wielded, by ה’.taking ‘the ring that he had removed from Haman and giving it to Mordechai

When we remove the rings of the Lulav, Hashem passes the power of Judgment to the Jewish People. Achashveirosh told Mordechai "כתבו על היהודים כטוב בעיניכםו", decree for the Jews as you see fit’. We hold the signet of the King in our hand and with the power of our Service render a verdict for the Jewish people ‘as we see fit.’

The Awesomeness of Shemini Atzeres

"וַ ֲאנִי ֶא ְהיֶה ָלּהּ נְ ֻאם ה' חוֹ ַמת ֵאשׁ ָס ִביב וּ ְל ָכבוֹד .In fact, it is Hashem Himself who is the true fortress of Yerushalayim .I will be, says Hashem, a fortress of fire around Yerushalayim and to honor I will be amidst her , ֶא ְהיֶה ְבתוֹ ָכהּ" )זכרי' ב:ט(
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Hoshanah Rabbah, Shemini Atzeres, and Simchas Torah are very powerful days, the Baal Shem Tov teaches. Praying with concentration and devotion on these days will pave the way for proper praying the entire year.

The physical world is governed by the power of seven; there are seven days in a week, seven continents etc. When we come to the number eight, we enter the realms of the supernatural. On the Seven days of Sukkos we are still connected to this world; on Shemini Atzeres, the eighth day, we are in Heaven.

On Sukkos, we hold the Esrog, which is the פרי עץ הדר, fruit of splendor. On Shemini Atzeres .ז the Ramban teaches ,הדר in our hands, because the day itself is הדר we don’t hold the
for all his devout הדר He is ,"הדר הוא לכל חסידיו" ,also refers to Hashem as it says in Tehilim הדר ones. When the Divine Presence manifests itself on a Jew, the Jew is then called הדר. On Shemini  rests on His people and they are called ,הדר Hashem, the ,הדר Atzeres, the day of .הדר

The Exclusive Relationship Between Hashem and the Jewish People

On Sukkos, we sacrifice seventy oxen on behalf of the seventy gentile nations. On Shemini Atzeres we sacrifice only one, on behalf of the Jewish People.

Rashiח describes this with a parable. On Sukkos, all the nations of the world are invited to partake of the banquet of the King. When Shemini Atzeres comes, we escort all the dignitaries of the nations to the door, we present them with gifts and are glad to see them go. It is time for the King, Hashem, and the Queen, the Jewish People, to be alone together.

"ולא עמד איש אתו בהתודע יוסף ,When Yosef revealed his identity to his brothers the verse tells us no man was with him when Yosef made himself known to his brothers. The Zohar explains ,אל אחיוט" ,בהתודע increases, the Jewish People. When Hashem will ,'מוסיף' alludes to Hashem who יוסף that make Himself known, to אחיו, the Jewish People who are called his brothers2 it is in complete privacy, .ולא עמד איש אתו

Shemini Atzeres is when Hashem makes himself known to the Jewish People. Our relationship reaches its most intense point and is compared to the relationship of marriage which is a completely private one.

The Gentile nations are satisfied with the gifts, i.e. the bounty they received on Sukkos by means of the sacrifices, with which they will sustain themselves for the year. The Jewish People give the bounty they received hardly a glance. We focus on the genuine treasure; we want our beloved, Hashem Himself.

Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah – A Time for Dveikus

There is one commandment in the Torah which is the purpose of the entire Torah. This Mitzvah is "ובו תדבק", you shall cleave to Hashem. The Zohar explains that all 612 commandments are really methods by which we can attain this essential mitzvah.

We have no specific Mitzvah for Shemini Atzeres because it is reserved for the ultimate one - Dveikus. Being in a state of Dveikus is the greatest pleasure that exists. Tzaddikim who are in a constant state of intense Dveikus cannot tear themselves away from this bliss for even a moment. On Shemini Atzeres, the Dveikus that tzaddikim have with Hashem is evident as they cannot tear themselves away for anything else.

."למען אחי ורעי וכו'" ,132 As the verse says in Tehilim perek
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On Shemini Atzeres, a chassid in a jubilant mood, went over to his Rebbe, the Hornsteipler Rebbe, and wished him, “The Rebbe should have a long life.”

The Rebbe completely ignored him. Later, the frightened Chassidim asked the Rebbe, “Why did the Rebbe not answer Amen to the blessing of a long life?”

The Rebbe looked at them in wonderment, “I should tear myself away from the Dveikus of the Shemini Atzeres to focus on something like a long life?”

People who have not yet reached the level of intensely cleaving to Hashem every moment are not precluded from the Mitzvah of Dveikus. Every Jew can fulfill this Mitzvah according to his ability - even the lowest Jew can cleave to Hashem.

Attaining Dveikus includes working on enjoying Mitzvos. Learning Torah and praying are tremendously pleasurable activities for the neshama. A person should work that his pleasures should come from holiness; he should be gratified and excited with Torah and Mitzvos.

Shemini Atzeres – Ensuring a Sweet Verdict, Jewish Sovereignty

.upon the Eight day you must restrain from doing forbidden work ,"וביום השמיני עצרת תהי' לכםי" The Maor Vashamesh sees something deeper in the word עצרת, restraining. On the eight day, we have the power to restrain all severity and punishment from befalling the Jewish people.

R’ Sholom of Belz said, “What the dancing on Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah can accomplish, I cannot reveal. But this much I will share with you: Any prayer that didn’t enter heaven a whole year (because it was deemed unfit) is elevated through this dancing.”

The word עצרת can also mean ‘Sovereignty3.’ On Shemini Atzeres, Jews merit Sovereignty. It is the day in which we are on the top.

Receiving the Torah

The Gemara states: A day of rain is as great as the day of the giving of the Torahיא. The ‘day of rain’ is Shemini Atzeres when we when we recite תפילת גשם, the prayer for rain which is the source of all sustenance.

The spiritual correspondent of water is Torah. We see that water really refers to Torah from the verse, "אין מים אלא תורהיב", there is no water other than Torah4. When a Torah Jew prays for rain, he has rain in mind, as a symbol of livelihood, only peripheral to Torah. What he really asks for as he says, בעבורו על תמנע מים, do not withhold water from us, is that Hashem should shower him with bounty in Torah. The Zohar says that wellsprings of Torah are opened on Shemini Atzeres.

Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah are days to ask Hashem for an abundance of understanding in Torah and to merit praying with Dveikus.
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The Ingathering of All the Avodas Hashem of the Entire Year

As the verse in Shmuel uses it, (זה יעצר בעמי" )שמואל ט:יז", this one [referring to King Shaul] will rule my nation.

In truth, the entire physical world represents spiritual realities. The Chasam Sofer questioned the reward for the fulfillment of Mitzvos, "ואספת דגניך ותירושך ויצהרך", you will gather your wheat, wine and oil, “I’m not a farmer, I don’t gather my crops. What kind of reward is there for a Torah Scholar?” He explained that wheat refers to Halacha, wine to Aggadah (the moral teachings of the Gemara) and oil refers to the secrets of the Torah.

Simchas Torah is the last day in a succession of great days. As a Tzaddik leaves this world, during his last moments, all of his Torah, prayer, and mitzvos are gathered together and his power of holiness is greatly compounded.5

On Simchas Torah all of the Torah, tefilah and Mitzvos of a whole year gather together so there tremendous spirituality is available. It is an opportune time to grab some to last for a whole year! There is so much available!

On Simchas Torah, we take out all the Torah Scrolls from the Holy Ark. The ‘Yesod Yosef’ explains that this symbolizes that Hashem opens all of his treasure houses on this day. There are great, holy lights for everyone to enjoy according to each individual’s spiritual capability.

A fool ruins all that he is given. Let us not be fools! So much goodness is being showered upon us; we must not let it go to waste!

Benefits

Although the prime focus of the day is spiritual, on Shemini Atzeres one can also ask for a bountiful livelihood.

King David was ecstatic when the Aron of Hashem [which contained the Torah] was bought to a more permanent dwelling. He danced and jumped with all his strength. His wife Michal looked askance at her husband. She thought it was beneath his dignity to dance like this in front of the .יג nation. Her punishment was that she never had any children during her lifetime

The positive is always stronger that the negative. If the punishment for not dancing with the Torah is to be denied children, then through dancing with the Torah one can merit giving birth to children and having nachas from children.

Each Jew is Connected to His Root in the Torah

The Tanya teaches that each Jew is rooted in the Torah. Through sin he severs himself from his roots and is distanced from the Torah. There used to be Tzaddikim who were able to reconnect Jews to their roots. Nowadays, there are no Tzaddikim who can do this. This does not mean that we will be permanently detached from holiness. If there is no tzaddik who can attach us to the Torah, Hashem Himself will. 6

Through the avodah of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we rectified ourselves and were drawn nearer to our roots in the Torah. On Sukkos, we are beneath the צילא דמהימנתא, the shadow of Hashem. Hashem protects us and brings us closer to Him and His Torah. On Simchas Torah every Jew receives an Aliyah to the Torah (he makes a blessing before the Torah is read).

The Jew has returned to his roots in the Torah.
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Eliyahu Hanavi responded that if Elisha is there as he departs from this world, his wish will be fulfilled. At the moment of his passing, Eliyahu possessed the spiritual power of all the days of his life combined, and he was able to give Elisha double of what he usually had. 6

Elisha Hanavi, the disciple of Eliyahu Hanavi, requested that his rebbe give him double of his own spiritual power. How could this be possible?

A Tzaddik who can affect salvations for Jews is referred to as a 'פועל ישועות', maker of salvation. In the prayer of Ahavah Rabbah we say to Hashem "קל פועל ישועות אתה", you are the פועל ישועות. If there are no Tzaddikim today who can connect a Jew to his roots in the Torah, than you Hashem do it for us!
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שבת קט"ז ע"א ג יהושע פרק ו' ד
אסתר ח:ב ה
אסתר ח:ח ו
רמב"ן ויקרא כג:מ ז
סוף פ' פנחס ח
בראשית מה:א ט
במדבר כט:לה י
תענית דף ז' א' יא
בבא קמא דף פ"ב א' יב שמואל ב פרק ו' יג 

A Charming Copenhagen Loft with Mid-Century Classics



It's Friday - härligt! How about a cosy home to top off the week? Earlier this year, Laura and Nora of Our Food Stories captured Line Borella's charming loft in Copenhagen. Line shares the space with her "patchwork family" which includes her daughter Nola, boyfriend Martin, and his three children. Line's career started in fashion, having been a part of the team who developed Copenhagen Fashion Week back in 2007, but she has since hopped over to the world of interiors, working in global PR for Danish brand MENU. Her home is a wonderful mish mash of mid-century Danish design pieces, iconic lighting, fluffy Moroccan rugs and new Nordic pieces. Enjoy the tour!







The family love cooking and designed the kitchen with plenty of work surfaces and a place for everyone to hang out and socialise while food is being prepared.

 

 


What a charming home! I love the original Danish design classics - it's amazing to see how they've withstood the test of time, testimony to the incredible craftsmanship.

Is there anything that stood out to you?

See more pictures and read an interview with Line on Design Tales

For more Danish inspiration over the weekend you might like to take a peek at the beautiful colours in this Jutland home, a charming boho apartment decorated on a shoe-string budget and a relaxed, mid-century inspired space.

We've just arrived in the Loire Valley, France to celebrate my Mum's birthday. We got up at the crack of dawn to catch a red-eye flight. I'm definitely feeling it now, but hopefully it's nothing a cool glass of Sancerre can't cure! 

Salut! Bon Weekend!

Niki

Photography: Laura & Nora of Our Food Stories / Design Tales, shared with kind permission 

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الخميس، 27 سبتمبر 2018

This Weeks 5 Frugal Things on a Friday

Hello Dear Reader,

We have had some welcomed rain during the week, it was perfect timing as lovely hubby finished the raised garden beds on Monday afternoon and that night it started to rain. It has also been quite cool in the mornings and evenings, a very cool start to spring. I am sure it won't be long though until we start having very warm days though.

I mentioned last week that I am struggling with my energy level, the good news is all blood tests have come back clear, no thyroid issues, iron level is good and my cholesterol is perfect. Also no markers for tumours which is always a relief. I just need to stop doing so much and take it a bit easier on myself. We have a long weekend coming up, thanks to Queen Lizzie's Birthday, it will be a welcomed 3 day break.

AND as the raised garden beds are finished, guess what we'll be doing this long weekend? That's right, we will be starting to plant them out. The first plants to go in will be our lemon and lime trees, the lemon tree is looking pretty healthy, it's the lime tree that will need some serious cutting back (gall wasp) and a good spray with white oil to control leaf curl. As we dig the big holes for the citrus to be planted in, we will be laying down fish frames in the bottom to enrich the soil and give the citrus lots of nutrients. We learnt this trick from a friend of my late FIL's who did this with all his fruit and veggies. Lovely hubby has been keeping the fish frames in the fish freezer as he has been filleting them.

This is what I got up to on the frugal front this past week-

1. Used 1/2 a bottle of thickened cream that was in the freezer to make some light as air scones to take to work for morning tea.


2. Made a few more cutlery wraps and gave them to work colleges as a little surprise gift, using fabric from my stash. I bought quite a few fat quarters from Spotlight a while ago when they were on a super special. One fat quarter makes 2 cutlery wraps. 

Ninja supervising as usual

3. Used all left overs up in a timely manner. I put everything that needs using up front and centre in the fridge so nothing goes to waste. Once a week I have been making a frittata out of any leftover veg, one egg, chopped spring onion and some grated cheese melted over the top to have for lunch. No waste and a delicious lunch, win, win!


4. Cleaned the house with homemade cleaners, I especially love this Miracle Spray, I use it on everything except mirrors.

5. Bought some marked down produce from a local supermarket, they will help to stretch the food dollar.

All of this for $5.75 from Woolworths, this produce is still in perfect condition.

       And $7.92 spent at Coles
                                                                                                                          
How did you save money this week?

Have a lovely day,
💕Fi

New Montana Free Shelving System in Allie's Room

Brand Story:
I'm loving the new Montana Free Shelving System. The Danish freestanding shelves are designed for a new way of living and you can choose between 12 compositions with or without interposed shelves, in 4 colours and optional panels in 8 colours. I picked up a set for Allie's new bedroom in New White with an interposed shelf for all her drawings. I'm pretty sure it won't look as neat as this in a few week's time so I thought I'd better capture them before she goes to town with all her wonderful bits and bobs! 

Genevieve Jorn (the MSH interior designer) and I deliberately opted for a low set so that Allie could easily reach all her knick-knacks and use the top shelf as an extra play surface.

The man and I  can never quite believe all the tiny things Allie picks up during the day  - you have to be super careful when vacuuming as even the tiniest item is important to her!! One of the things I love the most about these shelves is that they can be extended as she grows - so we can add on to them when needed. So handy!

Montana offer a selection of eight coloured panels to place wherever you like on the shelves (front or back!). I'm so happy with the two rust panels - they add a little colour.

The little mouse has followed Allie since she was a baby - I'm so pleased he's made himself at home! 
 
Find out more about Montana's Free Shelving System here and your nearest retailer here.

In case you're wondering anything else in these pictures, I'll be sharing a complete make-over post in the next couple of days. Feel free to ask away in the comment section below too!

What do you think? Could you imagine having shelves like these in your home?

Niki

Photography: Niki Brantmark / Interior Design: Genevieve Jorn.  

This post is brought to you in collaboration with Montana - all words are my own. 

The Shechina Hovers Upon the Sechach

Gan Eden in the Succah 
by Harav Moshe Wolfson Shlit"a

The Shechina (Divine presence) hovers upon the Sechach which covers the Sukkah. This is described in Parshas Ha’azinu, where the Shechina is compared to, an eagle which awakens its nest, hovering above its ,"כנשר יעיר קנו על גוזליו ירחף" hatchlings.

"להקיף אותם מזיו, Upon entering the Sukkah we recite a prayer asking Hashem surround them (the Jewish ,כבודך הקדוש והטהור נטוי על ראשיהם מלמעלה כנשר יעיר קנו" people) with the radiance of your holy, pure glory, spread over their heads like an eagle as it awakens its nest.

The flimsy branches of Sechach cannot protect us from the elements. We are meant to reflect on this and realize that nothing physical is worthy of our trust; only Hashem can support and protect us. When we realize this we will be able to feel safe and secure even under the primitive roof of the Sukkah.

The Sukkah teaches us that we are ensconced beneath the protective wings of the Shechina. We can continue to draw protection from the mitzvah of Sukkah for the entire year. Given the extremely dangerous state of the world today, we should put a strong emphasis on properly fulfilling it.

"וְ ֻס ָכּה ִתּ ְהיֶה ְל ֵצל יוֹ ָמם ֵמחֶֹרב Prophet Yeshaya describes Hashem’s protection as a Sukkah which shields from dryness during the day, and ,וּ ְל ַמ ְח ֶסה וּ ְל ִמ ְסתּוֹר ִמ ֶזּ ֶרם וּ ִמ ָמּ ָטרא" protects and shields against flood and rain. כנשר, an eagle, is gematria תהיה לצל, it will be a shield (they both equal 570). Like the eagle hovering protectively over its young, the Shechina protects those who fulfill the mitzvah of Sukkah from any lurking dangers.

Freedom in the Sukkah

Upon settling Eretz Yisrael, the Jews were commanded to observe every fiftieth year as a year of Yovel. During this year, all sold land reverted to its original owner and all enslaved Jews were set free. Yovel is a sublime spiritual power which emancipates and returns everything to its roots, where it belongs.1

The courts would proclaim the year as Yovel by blowing the Shofar on Yom Kippur. The Shofar was blown specifically on Yom Kippur because it is a day of Yovel - return. Through the repentance of Yom Kippur, Jewish souls are relieved from subjugation to the evil forces and are returned to their source – G-d Himself.
In addition to the biblical command to blow the Shofar on Rosh Hashana, it is customary to blow the Shofar at the end of Yom Kippur, in commemoration of the courts’ Yovel blasts.

The shofar blast of Rosh Hashana, which inspired repentance, is also connected to the spheres of Yovel. However, the Tanya teaches that the shofar blast which concludes the service of Yom Kippur has its roots in even loftier spheres than that of Rosh Hashana. It is rooted in the mighty blast which Hashem will blow to herald Mashiach. 1 The concept of Yovel was explained more comprehensively in Parshas Matos.

This Shofar blast will inspire every Jew to return to Hashem and afterwards Mashiach will come and return every Jew to Eretz Yisrael - the ultimate Yovel.

In a way, Sukkos is a continuation of Yom Kippur. Within the Sukkah, the atmosphere of Yovel reigns.2 The Zohar ב teaches that we merit freedom for ourselves and our children by sitting in the Sukkah. כנשר is gematria "יובל הוא תהיה לכםג", it is Yovel, it shall be for you (they both equal 570). The Sukkah, upon which the Shechina hovers over like an eagle, is filled with vibrations of Yovel.

A Sukkah is only for the Free

The Mishna ד relates that Tavi, the non-Jewish slave of the Rabbi Gamliel, slept under the bed in the Sukkah, thereby ensuring that he would not fulfill the mitzvah of Sukkah which requires being directly beneath the Sechach. R’ Gamliel praised Tavi because his act demonstrated that he knew that slaves are exempt from being in the Sukkah, since they are obligated to fulfill all non-time-bound mitzvos only, and the mitzvah of Sukkah is time-bound.

However, slaves can fulfill the mitzvah of Sukkah even though they are exempt. Women are also exempt from time-bound mitzvos nevertheless sit in the Sukkah.3
However, knowing that in the Sukkah an atmosphere of Yovel - freedom - prevails, we can understand why it would be incongruent for a slave to enter the Sukkah. Rabbi Gamliel praised Tavi for his perception in realizing that he had no connection to the Yovel which reigns in the Sukkah.

Furthermore, Tavi was a reincarnation of Cham ה, the son of Noach who was cursed with everlasting slavehood because he violated Hashem’s command that the inhabitants of the Teivah (ark) separate from their spouses.

The Sukkah and Teivah are remarkably similar. As the Sukkah provides protection, מזרם וממטר, the Teivah also protected from the raging waters of the Mabul (deluge). Like the Sukkah, the protection of the Teivah was divine in nature. Could planks of wood smeared with tar halt the raging, boiling waters of the Mabul?

Just as we have halachos (laws) how to build a Sukkah, and if not followed, a Sukkah is nothing more than a flimsy shack, so too did Hashem instruct Noach precisely how to build the Teivah. Each Halacha is a holy name of Hashem (as explained in the essay on Mikvah). It was not the physical edifice that blocked the waters, but the holy names of Hashem.

Tavi, who was once Cham, understood that he specifically had no place in the Sukkah, since he had violated the holiness of the Teivah.4

Proper Conduct in the Sukkah 2

The walls of the sukkah are referred to as מקיפין דבינה, encirclements of Binah. Binah and Yovel3 are synonymous, as was explained in Parshas Matos. 4

Tosfos proposes an answer by quoting the Gemara Yerushalmi which says that the sukkah was crowded. However, the Gemara Bavli’s omission indicates that there was another consideration.

Cham continued to sin on their exit from the Teivah by publicizing the fact that Noach had become uncovered. By sinning in the area of lack of covering, he deepened the disconnect between him and the Teivah/Sukkah which is a holy covering (see note 1).

Sefarim teach that the Sukkah contains the holiness of Yerushalayim and the Bais HaMikdash. This is reflected in the prayer recited before entering the Sukkah on the first night, where we ask that in the merit of the mitzvah of Sukkah, we be able to live in the Holy land for many years.

I love the place of your dwelling (i.e. the ,אהבתי מעון ביתך is gematria כנשר יעיר קנו Bais HaMikdash) and also, חיבת ירושלים, the love of Yerushalayim (they each equal 1016). In the Sukkah, over which Hashem hovers like an eagle over its nest, is the atmosphere of the Bais HaMikdash and Yerushalayim.

Due to its holiness, one should be careful not to chatter idly when sitting in the Sukkah. Of course, we have to be aware of our family’s emotional needs and individualize this according to each family’s situation. Some families can discuss the halachos of Sukkah, some the significance of the Mitzvah, others can say stories of tzaddikim and sing, but the atmosphere in the Sukkah is elevated, and the topic of conversation should reflect that.

The Lulav Proclaims Victory

On Sukkos we hold the Lulav high as a symbol of having emerged victorious from the judgment of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, just as soldiers returning triumphantly from battle hold their swords aloft. How do we know that we were vindicated in judgment? It would seem that we would have to wait for the year to pass first.

The Midrash tells of a tailor who went to buy a fish to fulfill the mitzvah of eating a meal on the eve of Yom Kippur. When he arrived at the marketplace there was only one fish left and the servant of a noble wanted to purchase it for his master who loved to eat fish. They bid on the fish until the price reached a ridiculously high amount and the servant withdrew and the tailor purchased the fish.

The nobleman asked his servant why he returned empty-handed. He explained what happened saying, “A tailor up-bid the price and I knew you would not want me to pay such an ostentatious price for a simple fish.” The noble summoned the tailor, “Why did you raise the price so high?”

“We have one day in the year when G-d pardons our sins and I needed the fish for my meal to celebrate the forgiveness of my sins.”

The noble responded, “You have proved your point, so you are excused.”

How did the tailor prove that Yom Kippur is a day of forgiveness by purchasing the fish at such an astronomical price? Also, nobles spent inordinate amounts of money on gratifying their various desires, how was the servant so sure that his master would be unwilling to spend so much money on a fish which he would enjoy eating?

The reason why the servant was so sure that his master would not want to spend an extravagant sum on the fish was because of a psychological rule, (which is rooted in arrogance): no one wants to feel taken advantage of. Do not use me! A rich man will not be willing to spend ten dollars on a toothpick even though he could well afford it. Even he will only purchase a product at the most reasonable price he could find.

The nobleman would not want to over-spend on a fish because he would feel taken advantage of. The tailor, on the other hand, did not care about his rights at all. He loved Hashem so much, he would spend whatever necessary for the mitzvah of eating a meal on the eve of Yom Kippur.

When the tailor said that on Yom Kippur Hashem forgives the sins of the Jewish people, the nobleman believed him because feelings tend to be mutual. If the tailor loved Hashem so much that he did not mind being taken advantage of and "על כל פשעים overspending so outrageously, then certainly Hashem loved him too and love obscures all faults , תכסה אהבהו”

By being willing to overspend so outrageously for the love of a mitzvah, the tailor exhibited his tremendous love for Hashem which shows the overwhelming love of Hashem for him, thus proving that Yom Kippur is a day when Hashem pardons all Jewish sins.

If one would ask a fruit vendor how much an Esrog is worth, he would say, “If a lemon is four for a dollar, an Esrog should be six for a dollar.” A florist would include a lulav for free with every bouquet. To spend $200-$300 on a set of the four species is outrageous from the perspective of a fair price.

However, in our overwhelming love for Hashem, Jews are willing to spend whatever price is demanded for the most beautiful Lulav and Esrog available and do not regard our natural feeling of not wanting to be taken advantage of. This guarantees Hashem’s great reciprocal love for the Jewish people by which He surely forgave our sins and granted us a favorable verdict.

Side-Benefits of the Mitzvah of Sukkah

In Parshas Ha’azinu, Hashem says, מחצתי ואני ארפא, I have stricken and I will heal. Seforim teach that מחצתי refers to the מחיצות, walls, of the Sukkah. Thus the verse reveals that sitting in the sukkah can affect a complete cure.

The Mitzvah of Sukkah is also auspicious for raising virtuous children, as the Torah tells us that we should sit in Sukkos in order that, "למען ידעו דורותיכםז", your generations should know that the Jews sat in Sukkos when they left Egypt.

The Gemara teaches "המצטער פטור מן הסוכהח", one who is suffering because of his sitting in the Sukkah [e.g. it is raining] is relieved of the obligation of Sukkah. The Tiferes Shlomo sees salvation in these words, המצטער, one who is suffering, פטור – can relieve himself of his suffering, מן הסוכה – through the mitzvah of Sukkah. A Jew can rid himself of his troubles in the Sukkah because therein is Yovel, which brings freedom and redemption.5

[. . .] This year, may we all return to our roots in Eretz Yisrael and to Hashem himself. 5


5  (תהלים כז:ה) "כי יצפננו בסכה” for He will hide us in a Sukkah (to protect us) is gematria  
לכל ישבה
 (ויקרא כהי [Yovel frees] all her [Eretz Yisrael’s] residents (they both equal 403)


ישעי' ד:ו א
פ' אמור ב
ויקרא כה:י ג
סוכה דף כ' ע"ב ד
גלגולי נשמות לרמ"ע מפאנו ה משלי ו:יב ו
ויקרא כג:מג ז
סוכה דף כ"ה ע"ב ח


Copyright © 2018 Shiurei Harav Moshe Wolfson Shlit"a, All rights reserved. 

الأربعاء، 26 سبتمبر 2018

Future Plans for the Garden-Another Update

Hello Dear Reader,

Guess what? The garden transformation is just about done. Lovely Hubby has done a fantastic job and I just can't wait to start planning and planting out our new raised garden beds. I have saved so many youtube programs to my iPad, about 4 bed crop rotation and have been watching them non stop. And of course I have been watching Gardening Australia as well, it is the highlight of my week. I have so many ideas, I can't wait till it all comes to fruition.

We have bought some gabion baskets at a great price from a local landscaping supplier, they were 20% off for the month of September. We have a lot of rock to use up that was originally the garden edging, we also have a lot of rock from next door that our son doesn't want, so I am sure we will have enough rock to fill the gabion baskets, which will act as retaining walls and a long bench at the back of the garden as well.

Even though I am super excited to start planting out, I am going to just take my time and really plan it well. I have made so many garden mistakes over the years, this time I want to get it right. The first plants going in will be our long suffering citrus, a lemon and lime, which have been in pots all their lives and are not the healthiest specimens. The lime especially, which sits in the back "veggie" garden is full of gall wasp, citrus curl and is just plain neglected. It will get a good cut back and dose of home made white oil.

Over the years I have saved heaps of seeds that I will use up first, I have basil, red lantern chilli, jalapeño, bellini tomatoes, parsley, coriander, jap pumpkin, mustard green, bok choy, rosella, sugar snap peas and sage. As well as bought seed such as, carrot, kale, broccoli, fennel and NZ spinach. That should be enough to get me started and I want to stick to the mantra of only growing what we eat.




The finished garden beds 

Lovely hubby finished the raised garden beds on Monday afternoon and we were rewarded with some  rain every night since then, perfect timing. The rain will settle the soil and of course add some moisture to the soil as well. We have bought bales of sugar cane mulch and as we plant out will be adding a really thick layer of mulch to reduce moisture loss and deter weeds. Stay tuned in the coming weeks to see our progress. 

Have a lovely day,
💕Fi

Weekly Goals Update: Week 38

I am so behind this week.  It is mainly due to working on other projects.  I do plan to share our work in the hallway tomorrow and hopefully get back on track.


1.  Disaster Preparedness
Week 38 was communication.  We do have hand crank radios.  The batteries on our MP3 players stay charged for many hours and the radio on these picks up well.  Since the fire station is very near our home, I feel okay with this prep. 


2.  Makeover the Garden
I have my raised beds and several containers cleaned out, but it is just too hot to think about planting any fall crops.  Our highs are still in the 90s, and rain is scarce.  At this point it will be October before I do anything.  In the meantime W is working on plans for a hydroponics system in our greenhouse.  He bartered for some large containers to get started.  I will share more on that as he gets it up and running.


3.  Organize Recipes
I have been too busy with other things to work on this.  I am saving it for a cold winter day - if we ever get one.


4.  Have 13 No Spend Grocery Weeks
I had planned to go to the grocery store last week, but we ended up making do with what we had.  That brings my total to 12.  I will definitely have at least one in October.  Next week will be my big shop for the month of October.


5.  Focus on Saving
I am continuing to work on the various earning websites.  I am currently working to get gift cards to purchase pavers for our patio area.  We found some that we like which are 75% off.  I will not be able to pay for all of them with gift cards, but I can put a dent in the price.  At that price we are willing to pay the extra as we will save much more than if we purchased at the regular price.


6.  Etsy Shop
I need to find a day to list everything I have made.  I have a box full of items to list and am continuing to work on more. 



A Soft Swedish Home With A Stormy Bedroom Wall!


Why, hello there friends! It's soooo stormy here today - I've battened down the hatches and am rocking about in some chunky knit socks! Perhaps it was my subconscious which picked out this soft, grey Swedish apartment today. The stormy blue / grey wall in the bedroom is reminiscent of the bruised sky outside - although more beautiful of course! I also love the patina (more details about how to achieve this at the bottom of the post), as well as the relaxed blend of old and new furniture. I'd be very happy padding about here storm or no storm, how about you?! 

 Flos light*, Wishbone chair*, IKEA kitchen cabinets



Love the leather handles - I believe these are also from IKEA! When we moved into our house 11 years ago we had the same green marble in the bathroom. I intended to rip it out, but then it steadily grew on me and today I love it. Are you a fan?


Source a custom-made wall hanging like this one here*.



Do you see what I mean about the 'stormy' wall in the bedroom?! It's amazing how it appears calm and dramatic in equal measure. I love that little pop of red from the balcony door too. Is there anything you love about this Swedish space?

I've created a similar patina on my wall in my dining room and window nook by adding Zinsser Roll-A-Tex Sand texture to the paint. The amount you add will determine how textured the result will be. FYI it's a bit of a faff  - I was absolutely covered in the stuff  - the things we do to get a nice home!!

Do you have any other suggestions on how to nail this look?

If you've also battened down the hatches today, how about popping the kettle on, putting your feet up and scrolling through these grey and white Scandinavian home tours - so beautiful!

Stay cosy!

Niki

Photography courtesy of Stadshem (through whom this apartment is for sale) with thanks.